Free service helps families find the right place for mom
7:08 AM, Aug 25, 2010
7:44 AM, Aug 25, 2010
It's one of the most important decisions you can make for a
parent or grandparent: finding a place for them to live when they
can't live alone.
But it can also be one of the most difficult decisions you can
make, especially if you are under pressure and dealing with
That's why "A Place for Mom" for started ten years ago and
continues to grow every year. Since 2009, the number of
clients has spiked 30-percent.
The free consulting service has counselors across the
country. Their job is to help families understand their
options. Should their parent go into independent living,
assisted living or a nursing home? What kind of questions
should they be asking? What should they expect to pay a
"Most of the families we talk to are dealing with insurance
terminology and hospital terminology on top of their own
responsibility of family and work (and now) they're having to deal
with this next step of trying to determine the levels of care, what
is the best fit... Our service provides that education. I
spend the majority of my day educating people," said Pam Siedler an
Eldercare Adviser with A Place for Mom.
Pam makes sure to explain the differences between several types
Independent Living is for people who can still drive and take
care of themselves. It's a good option for people looking to
downsize and who can't handle taking care of a house anymore.
It also gives people a range of activities and meals if they
choose. The cost runs between $1,200 and $2,500 per
Assisted Living is for people who need 24-hour care and three
meals a day. It's a good option for people who need help
managing their medications and help bathing. The cost runs
between $2,500 and $5,000 a month.
Nursing Homes or Skilled Nursing - is for people who need a high
level of care around the clock. It's the best option for
people who are disabled, in a wheelchair or on dialysis. The
cost is typically $5,000 and up a month.
In Home Care - is for people who don't want to move out of their
home but need someone to cook, clean, run errands, help them bathe
and manage their medications. Depending where you live, part
of that care can be covered by the state.
Families who can't afford any of the above options can look into
VA or Mason benefits.
Those who think they are eligible for Medicaid will have to wait
45-60 days for approval. But their choices are limited.
There are very few Assisted Living places that accept Medicaid in
the KC metro. The majority of Nursing Homes accept it, but
only if you agree to live in a shared room environment.
After A Place for Mom helps you figure out what kind of
community is best for your parent, a counselor will contact their
partner communities and set up several appointments/tours. A
counselor will also give you a set of questions so you know who is
going to be taking care of your parent, what their background is
and ultimately whether you will feel comfortable with them or
A Place for Mom does not charge families. Instead, communities
pay the company a referral fee.